Truth about Teddie Von Engelbert aka Teddy Engelbert aka Ted Engelbert akaTed Lobster aka Ted Vegas aka TedTastic73 or TeddyRuxpin II

Ok here we go! I am going to tell this story from start to finish! You can put a lie detector on me and I will pass with flying colors! So before you intertwine your life with this narcissistic sociopath you should know what to look for! We met in 2010 when I was on a date with someone else and he was our bartender at a Chili's restaurant in Florence, SC (which he was later fired for spitting in people's food). Anyway I was a bartender at another local restaurant and went for drinks after work! He was our bartender. I was looking for someone at that point in my life to spend my life with and he made a comment in passing to the effect that he was it!  He claimed He was the person I was looking for. He invited me to his house and I accepted after work one night. I only stated for a short time but he seemed so AWSOME I thought he maybe what I was looking for. So I saw him again soon. After a few dates he starts telling me he had anti social personality  disorder and that he had not filed income tax since 2001 just because he didn't want to. This he said made him very paranoid to the point that he didn't even like to walk to his mail box! I having my own issues with the IRS (which have since been cleared up) made me understand and accept his issues and being that my brother had some of the same antisocial traits helped me to think I could deal with the issues that lay ahead! Boy was I wrong! Beware! If someone tells you things like this about themselves run like hell or you will find yourself in hell! So we started really dating in March of that year (both of us working) everything seemed wonderful! At Christmas that year he gave me a ring and asked me to move in! I gave him the latest iPod available at that time which was a huge mistake! Janurary came and he started acting funny told me he didn't love me and didnt want me to move in. So I left but we were still seeing each other and my things were still in his house! All the time swearing he wasn't seeing anyone! That very same night he had a married slut by the name of Lisa French (married to Dennis French) sleeping in the very same bed we were in the night before! He had to move my pajamas to clear her a spot! Yes I know that should have been the end of us but he kept convincing me he wanted me in his life! A few days later he was planning a trip to the beach fo a comedy show he was participating in and asked me to come spend the night and take care of his pets for him (I was very fond of the animals) again he was promising he was staying with a friend! Well come to find out he was with another married slut named Charlotte(charlee) Parnell married to Frank Parnell. Yes everything I am claiming here I do now have picture proof! Well when he invited me to come over to see the pets and take a nap at his house while he was at work I foolishly took him up on it! When I went to get in the bed I found the clothes and diamond earring of one (I believe was either Lisa French or another slut named Michelle Hayden, who works for Hartsville Physical Therapy and had a serious relationship with someone else)! Needless to say that earring was given to the first person I came across! When asked who had been thee of course being the perpetual liar he was said no one! I told him to tell "no one" that I gave their earring to a complete stranger and they would never see it again.  It was at this point I started to go out with a deputy Sherrif wh happened to be (by coincidence) the ex husband of the newest person in his life. She will remain nameless because she did not have a serious relationship going at that time and I don't want to name the deputy he has since married and I wish him all the best! Of course when he found out I was seeing someone else he wanted me back. It was at about this time he got fired from Chili's and told me some bullshit excuse about his hemorrhoid being the reason! I now believe it was because of something he told me he was doing to rude or non tipping customers and that was putting a lil extra foam (spit) in their drinks or food! I believe he got caught and that is why he was blacklisted in the restaurant industry in Florence,SC!  I really felt bad for him he was really depressed and down and out so I offered to take care of the bills at his house (this was in May 2010). I was offering to let him collect himself get it together n get back to work! He promised he would pay me back anything I spent! Boy was I a fool! But I stuck around thinking I really loved him. By August he was asking me to move back in that he loved me and wanted to be with me! I foolishly believed him and moved back in! Everything, I thought , was great until I started noticing lil changes in him in Feb of 2012. I later found out that he was again seeing another married slut who was sending sext msgs to him on a phone I was paying for! Her name was Jennie Lynn Odom Stanley also of Darlington SC. When asked about this of course he denied it but I had the pictures but the worst was yet to come! I bought him an iPhone in January of 2012. At this point I got his iPod! That's when the really weirdo shit started! I was finding anonymous sex msgs from Craigslist! I was working 3 jobs to take care of all the bills and he was having sex parties at my house on Fridays while I worked! Not just sex parties with strangers but was soliciting a complete stranger for her breast milk! How sick is that! Needless we were no longer having sex! I figured out something was going on when he insisted I call him every night when I left work!......(hand tired will post the rest of the story later)!! Including the episode of physical violence that put me out of work for over 7 mths!